Boomers Participated in Holiday Trends and Traditions

Once Thanksgiving was in the rearview mirror, it was time for boomers to ramp up Christmas decorating around the house. In Mister Boomer’s household, the Christmas tree was not purchased until mid-December (it was always a live tree in his house); but there were still decorating jobs inside the house that began the weekend after Thanksgiving, starting with Mister B and his brother wiping the dust off the family advent wreath. This wreath marked the days until Christmas with a candle for each of the preceding four weeks. The one Mister B’s family had was a rectangular black metal base with holders for four candles on the corners; between the red candles were intertwined scrub-brush-fake pine branches and pine cones that were painted with “snow.” It served mainly as a decorative centerpiece on the dining room table. Candles were only lit on each successive Sunday with an accompanying prayer, before the family meal. Space was at a premium, so the candles were extinguished and the unit moved off the table once the meal was served.

Another sure sign that Christmas was on the way was the annual covering of the inside of the front door with either aluminum foil or wrapping paper. For more than a decade this was the designated spot where Christmas cards would be Scotch taped. In the years when Mister B’s mom was in a decorating mood, wide red ribbon was added to make it look like a giant gift package before any cards were put on it. Inevitably, there were certain relatives and family friends who made sure their Christmas card greeting arrived a day or two after Thanksgiving.

Much more fun for Mister B and his siblings was applying Glass Wax stencils to the living room window. This decoration trend lasted for a few years. While the exact timeframe of when this was done escapes Mister B, online sources put its popularity in the 1950s. As current YouTube videos can attest, Mister B, Brother Boomer and his sister each added to the window by dabbing the wax onto a selected stencil with a sponge dipped in the wax. Mister B remembers Santa stencils, reindeer, ornaments, Christmas trees, wreaths and candles. Mister B’s mom watched over the process, stopping the kids from filling the window with stencils. She was directing her vision of an overall design that would be visible from the street.

At one point in his family history, Mister Boomer’s mother took to making some do-it-yourself Christmas decorations. The most successful of these was a wreath fashioned from dry cleaner bags, which were cut into strips and tied around a coat hanger that had been bent into a circular shape. The addition of a red bow completed this mid-century modern design. Mister B does not remember if she found the instructions in a Good Housekeeping article or got the idea from a neighborhood friend.

As the days passed and Christmas approached, Mister Boomer and Brother Boomer were assigned the tasks of getting the boxes of Christmas ornaments out from the basement storage area, and most importantly, untangling the strands of Christmas lights and testing them. It was a bulb-by-bulb search for burn outs, since the lights in the 1950s and early ’60s did not light if one bulb was loose or burned out.

Other house decorations appeared in some years, usually in the form of gold or silver garland festooned along the top molding on the wood panel wall where the sunburst clock resided.

In mid-December, when the Christmas tree was purchased, Mister B’s father untied it from the roof of the car and brought it to the backyard. There, he sawed off a bit of the base of the tree trunk, then hauled it down the stairs to the basement and placed it in a bucket of water. It would remain there for at least twenty-four hours so it could get acclimated to the indoor temperature, which was cooler in the basement, and not immediately drop its needles. Usually on the next day, Mister Boomer and Brother Boomer would help move the furniture, then lay down the tree skirt base and the tree stand in the corner of the room by the front window. Once Mister B’s father got the tree up the stairs and into place in the stand, it was usually up to Mister B to crawl under the tree to secure the stand screws into the trunk base and fill the stand with water. Full decorating could commence after Mister Boomer’s father ran the lights around the tree.

How about you, boomers? What holiday trends of the 1950s and ’60s did your family embrace? When did your interior holiday decorating begin?

Boomers Gave Thanks, But Not For Their Kitchens

It’s time for Thanksgiving once again, and boomers have certainly had much for which they can be thankful. In the 40 year period between 1900 and 1940, previous generations endured two world wars and a Great Depression. The Boomer Generation was the first to witness an abundance after the hardships; of technology, living space and more. Some sociologists say the “American portion” that is so evident on Thanksgiving plates came about as a direct result of the experiences of boomer parents.

Of interest to Mister Boomer, though, is where the Thanksgiving meal had to begin in every household: the kitchen. Compared to the spaces inhabited by today’s cooks, kitchens in boomer days were rudimentary, and in most cases, small. Yet boomer mothers cooked, roasted and baked for days so their family could enjoy the benefits of a post-war world.

Step into a boomer-era kitchen and the first thing you may notice is that it was, more often than not, a separate room. There was no such thing as “open concept living” at the time. Each room had a function, separated by walls. Here are some things you’d expect to find in a boomer-era kitchen, but no longer, and things you would not see at that point in history:

Back then, it was common to have:
• A clock on the wall. The location could vary, from being attached to the wooden valance (which was often scalloped) over the sink to above the door that usually led to the backyard. Clocks could be merely functional or designed to reflect the personality of the “woman of the house,” whose domain was the kitchen.
• A rotary phone on the wall. The kitchen wall phone is legendary in boomer history. Until fathers gave in and got their daughters a Princess phone, somewhere in the late ’60s, the kitchen wall phone was the only phone in the house for most boomers. Some boomers who lived in older homes had a phone sitting on a stand or table in a hall or living room, but in Mister B’s experience, the kitchen phone was the most likely.
• A grease can on the stove. Many boomers recall the grease can that was there to collect bacon grease, but in Mister Boomer’s home, the grease can was for all types of grease. His parents utilized empty coffee cans. One of his aunts, however, had a ceramic pot with a lid, made for the purpose. Mister Boomer recalls that a quick Thanksgiving breakfast could be eggs fried in grease taken from the can.
• A radio on a counter, preferably away from the sink or stove. For Mister Boomer and several houses in his neighborhood that he had occasion to visit, this was the case. In Mister B’s home, a plastic 1950s radio sat on the counter, its plug taking up one of the two outlets that were available in the entire kitchen. Mister B’s mother would, on occasion, listen to the radio while cooking.

Things that are common now, but you probably would not see in a boomer-era kitchen:
• A microwave oven. Though they were invented in 1945, and the first home-use microwave was available to consumers in 1952, it was the 1970s before they became popular fixtures in the kitchen.
• A dishwasher. Certainly dishwashers were available for purchase, but the only people Mister Boomer knew who had dishwashers were those who had purchased new homes that had them built in. Kitchens in older homes didn’t have space for a dishwasher, even if the family could afford one. So, Thanksgiving dinner’s pots, pans and “good china” that was reserved for holidays, would be washed and dried by hand. (Mister Boomer’s mother got her “good china” by purchasing the set one plate per week from a supermarket promotion. Mister B and his siblings traded off washing dishes.)
• Granite countertops. Though commonplace these days, granite, or any stone, was rarely used as a kitchen countertop in middle-income households. In the 1920s and ’30s, the style was ceramic tile. Many boomers who lived in older homes grew up with tile countertops. The 1950s and ’60s brought laminate surfaces, the most popular being Formica. In Mister B’s case, most of his aunts and uncles had tile countertops, while his kitchen countertops consisted of vinyl sheeting glued to the counter. It was the 1970s before the kitchen was remodeled and a laminate was installed.
• Under-cabinet lighting. Another common feature of today’s kitchens, though for most boomers in Mister B’s experience, there was one light in the kitchen, and it came from the fixture in the ceiling. Once oven hoods began to be popular in the 1970s, an extra source of light over the stove became an option.
• Frost-free refrigerators. The first frost-free refrigerator was patented in 1960. Boomers will recall helping their moms defrosting their refrigerator’s freezer by turning it off, then waiting until the walls of ice could be chipped away and wiped down before turning the freezer back on. Mister B’s mom placed pans of heated water in the freezer to hasten the process. Defrosting the freezer would be a must before Thanksgiving. It was the 1970s before frost-free refrigerators became more popular, along with the introduction of the in-the-door ice cube dispenser.

Boomers had much to be thankful for, but thinking back on it, one we probably took for granted was the space and equipment our mothers had to work with to produce the meal memories we now recall in our senior years.

In retrospect, how rudimentary was the kitchen of your youth, boomers?