Boomers Mark the Loss of People Who Touched Their Lives

It has become a Mister Boomer tradition as the year comes to an end to list some of the accomplished people who have passed on in the previous 12 months. Some of these people are well-known to boomers, as historical or cultural icons, while others worked quietly, yet their work had powerful implications for boomers and beyond.

Marty Grebb (September 2, 1945 — January 1, 2020)
Boomer musician Marty Grebb played keyboards, guitar and saxophone for The Buckinghams from 1966 to 1968. He also toured with and appeared on dozens of records for a variety of artists, including Leon Russell, Elton John, Muddy Waters, Etta James and Eric Clapton.
He spent 25 years as a member of Bonnie Raitt’s band, and a year with Chicago, from 1980-81. If you don’t own any records by The Buckinghams (well, you’ll need to rectify that situation), check for his name on records by these other artists with whom he collaborated.

Buck Henry (December 9, 1930 — January 8, 2020)
Many boomers will recall Buck Henry as the 10-time host of Saturday Night Live from 1976 to 1980. Yet the reason Buck was on SNL to begin with was his credentials as an actor, writer, producer and director. Whether boomers made the connection or not, our generation has been watching work by Buck Henry since the early 1960s. He was a member of the cast on the US version of That Was the Week That Was (1964–1965), the satirical news show that has influenced every similar show since. He followed that stint as the co-creator (with Mel Brooks) of Get Smart (1965-70), then collaborated with Calder Willingham to write the screenplay for The Graduate (1967). Buck is credited with writing the famous “plastics” speech from the film. The writing team received an Oscar nomination for the screenplay. Yet there was still more. Buck wrote the Barbra Streisand comedies, The Owl and the Pussycat (1970) and What’s Up, Doc? (1972). As an actor, he appeared in more than 40 films, and had numerous appearances and recurring roles on TV shows throughout the 1960s and ’70s.

Kirk Douglas (Issur Danielovitch Demsky; December 9, 1916 — February 5, 2020)
Kirk began his film acting career as the Boomer Generation came into being, which puts him at the core of boomer movie memories for decades, appearing in more than 90 films and numerous TV guest roles. Boomers have their choice of favorites, but Mister B thinks many will choose his role as Vincent Van Gogh in Lust for Life (1956); Gunfight at the O.K. Corral (1957); Spartacus (1960) or Seven Days in May (1964.) He stood up to the Hollywood establishment to support blacklisted screenwriter Dalton Trumbo, whom he hired to write the screenplay for Spartacus. Nominated three times in the Academy Awards Best Actor category, Kirk received an honorary Oscar in 1996 for his 50 years of work in the motion picture industry.

Max Von Sydow (April 10, 1929 — March 8, 2020)
Max rose to fame as a medieval knight playing chess with the Grim Reaper in Ingmar Bergman’s, The Seventh Seal (1957). He’s one of those actors who appeared again and again in movies throughout the boomer years to current times. He often played roles of characters who were older than he was in real life, as he did as the priest in The Exorcist (1973). In 2016, he played Three-Eyed Raven in The Game of Thrones series.

Bill Withers (July 4, 1938 — March 30, 2020)
When we read about Bill Withers songs, the word “classic” comes up over and over again. His song, Lean on Me (1972), has resurfaced as a beacon of hope in our year of the coronavirus; among other Bill Withers classics: Ain’t No Sunshine (1971), Use Me (1972) Lovely Day (1977) and Just the Two of Us (1981).

Little Richard (Richard Penniman; December 5, 1932 — May 9, 2020)
A rock & roll pioneer, Little Richard was known for his flamboyant look and performance antics onstage. Boomers will instantly recall his scratchy howl in Tutti Frutti (1955). Numerous rock icons name him as a main influence in their careers, including The Beatles (he was the opening act when the Beatles played Hamburg), Bob Dylan, Otis Redding, David Bowie and Prince, to name a few. Little Richard was in the first group of Rock & Roll Hall of Fame inductees in 1986.

Katherine Johnson (August 26, 1918 — February 24, 2020)
A NASA mathematician who calculated the rocket trajectory for Apollo moon landings, Katherine Johnson remained virtually unknown to most boomers until the 2016 movie, Hidden Figures, portrayed her story. As a black female scientist in the 1960s, she was never given her due for her valuable contributions to the Space Program. She began work at Langley Research Center in Hampton, Virginia in 1953. There, she earned the trust of John Glenn. When Glenn was chosen as the first American to orbit the Earth, he specifically asked for Katherine to double-check the orbital calculations that were coming from early NASA computers, then known to be unreliable. She was awarded the the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2015, by President Barack Obama.

Kenny Rogers (August 21, 1938 — March 20, 2020)
Boomers will recall the group that introduced our generation to Kenny was The First Edition, and their hit, Just Dropped in (to See What Condition My Condition Was in) (1968). When the band released, Ruby, Don’t Take Your Love to Town (1978), a song by Mel Tillis, and it charted at No. 1 on both the country and pop charts, the band was renamed Kenny Rogers and the First Edition. By the mid 1970s, Kenny embarked on a solo career. For the next four decades, he straddled genres between pop and country.

Ken Osmond (June 7, 1943 — May 18, 2020)
Boomers knew Ken as Eddie Haskel on Leave It to Beaver. Eddie was a mischievous teen friend to Wally, but was always on his best behavior in front of Mrs. Cleaver. His character was the inspiration for Bart Simpson. After Leave It To Beaver, he was typecast so he quit acting and became a Los Angeles Police Department motorcycle cop.

Carl Reiner (March 20, 1922 — June 29, 2020)
Carl came to the attention of early boomers as a writer-actor on Sid Caesar’s 1950s TV shows, working alongside Woody Allen, Neil Simon and Mel Brooks. He created The Dick Van Dyke Show (1961-66) based on experiences and people he met as head writer for Sid Caesar. Boomers will long remember him as a writer, actor and director, but most notably for his boomer-era TV sitcom, The Dick Van Dyke Show.

Astrid Kirchherr (May 20, 1938 — May 12, 2020)
In 1960, The Beatles were playing clubs in Hamburg, Germany, where photographer Astrid Kirchherr shot some of the earliest photos of the Fab Four. She fell in love with Stuart Sutcliffe, who was the original bass player. Stuart borrowed her collarless tops and adopted the hairstyle of Astrid’s art school friends, marking the beginnings of the look and style of The Beatles. When Astrid became engaged to Stuart in November 1960, he left the band to pursue his art career. Stuart passed away in 1962 from a cerebral hemorrhage. After Stuart’s death, she remained in Hamburg until she was asked to shoot behind the scenes photos during the filming of A Hard Day’s Night (1964).

Hugh Downs (February 14, 1921 — July 1, 2020)
A TV personality that boomers grew up watching (and hearing), Hugh Downs began his career in radio, then became an announcer for TV soaps. In 1947, he became an announcer on the puppet show, Kukla, Fran and Ollie. Boomers knew him most recently as the host of the Today Show on NBC, and 20/20 on ABC. He will also be remembered as being the host of numerous TV game shows, most notably, Concentration (1958-69).

Congressman John Lewis (February 21, 1940 — July 17, 2020)
Congressman Lewis was the last surviving speaker of the 1963 March on Washington. As the chairman of the Student Non-Violent Coordinating Committee (SNCC), he was just 23 years old at the time. That was the day Martin Luther King Jr. delivered his “I have a dream” speech. In 1965, Lewis was on the Edmund Pettus Bridge in Selma, Alabama, during a march for voting rights. State and local police violently attacked the marchers to break up the protest. Lewis was left beaten and bloody from the police, giving the day the name, Bloody Sunday. Fighting for freedom and justice his entire life, he was elected to congress in 1988, and spent the next 30 years serving Georgia’s 5th Congressional District.

Trini Lopez (May 13, 1937 — August 11, 2020)
A singer and guitarist, boomers probably remember Trini for his hits, Lemon Tree (1965) and his version of, If I Had a Hammer (1963). Lopez had formed a band in Wichita, Texas, in 1955 and achieved moderate success as live performer. His band was signed and got a single released by Columbia Records. When the contract expired, he came to the attention of Frank Sinatra while playing at a nightclub. Frank’s Reprise Records signed him and released his first album in 1962. Nonetheless, record executives had repeatedly suggested he change his name to appeal to a broader audience, but Trini refused to do so.

Gaetano “Tommy” DeVito (June 19, 1928 –- September 21, 2020)
Tommy was a founding member, the lead guitarist and vocalist for The Four Seasons. He was with the group during their most successful period, releasing hits including Sherry (1962), Big Girls Don’t Cry (1962), Walk Like a Man (1963), Let’s Hang On! (1965) and many more. He left the group in 1970. Along with the other members of the group, he was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1990. The 2005 Broadway musical, Jersey Boys, is based on the early days of the band and Tommy’s journey with the band. Clint Eastwood made the movie version in 2014.

Johnny Nash (August 19, 1940 — October 6, 2020)
Johnny was among the first artists to bring reggae to U.S. audiences, most memorably with his 1972 chart-topping hit, I Can See Clearly. His commercial appeal peaked in late 1960s and early 1970s. Boomers may recall Hold Me Tight (1968), You Got Soul (1968), and his version of Bob Marley’s Stir It Up (1972).

Diana Rigg (July 20, 1938 — September 10, 2020)
Classically trained as a stage actor with The Royal Shakespeare Company, she came to be known by boomers through her role as Emma Peel on TV’s The Avengers (Diana’s time in the role was 1965-67). Her character was known for stylish outfits, intelligence and quick wit, and her martial arts ability. In recent years she played the role of Lady Olenna Tyrell on Game of Thrones.

Ruth Bader Ginsberg (March 15, 1933 — September 18, 2020)
With a resume that is directly intertwined with the peace, justice and equality movements of the 1960s, Ruth began her law career in 1956 as one of the few female law students in the country, first attending Harvard Law School and then transferring to Columbia Law School. Stymied by discrimination, she was unable to get a job at a law firm merely because she was a woman. Instead, she turned to academia, and became a law professor. Her experiences influenced her life-long work of fighting injustices, especially gender stereotypes that held women back from their true potential. She was nominated by President Bill Clinton for the Supreme Court in 1993. Her induction to the court made her only the second female justice in the court’s history.

Helen Reddy (October 25, 1941 — September 29, 2020)
Helen Reddy spent her life advancing female empowerment. Consequently, boomers will forever remember that she was Australian, and sang, I Am Woman, which roared to the top of the charts in 1971. She had other hits, including Delta Dawn (1973) and Angie Baby (1974), but none reached the popularity and success of I Am Woman, which has since entered into cultural icon status.

Eddie Van Halen (January 26, 1955 — October 6, 2020)
A boomer himself, Eddie was a musician’s guitarist, gaining legions of fans for his ability. He played guitar on Michael Jackson’s Beat It while his own band’s (Van Halen) album charted just below Michael’s. He was inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame in 2007.

Whitey Ford (Edward Charles Ford; October 21, 1928 — October 8, 2020)
Many boomer sports fans recall Whitey as one of the greatest Major League pitchers baseball has ever seen. Though he was not physically intimidating, and didn’t have the fastest fastball, Whitey was known for his ball control. He spent 16 years pitching for the New York Yankees from 1950-67. In 1961 alone, he won the Cy Young Award and was named MVP of the Word Series. A six-time World Series champion, he won 236 games in his career, a record that still stands for the Yankees franchise. Whitey was elected to the Baseball Hall of Fame in 1974.

Sean Connery (August 25, 1930 — October 31, 2020)
To many boomers, there was only one 007, and that was Sean Connery. The man who initiated the role in the movies, he went on to play the super-spy James Bond in seven films. Boomers also recall his roles in The Man Who Would Be King (1975), The Hunt for Red October (1990) and his Oscar-winning role in The Untouchables (1987).

Len Barry (Leonard Borisoff; June 12, 1942 — November 5, 2020)
Boomers remember Len Berry for his cheery pop melodies. He was the lead singer of The Dovells, recording Bristol Stomp (1961) and You Can’t Sit Down (1963). He embarked on a solo career in 1963, reaching his peak with 1-2-3 (1965).

Jim Tucker (October 17, 1946 — November 12, 2020)
Boomers remember Jim as an original member and guitarist for the Turtles from 1965-68. He was with the group during their biggest year, 1967, when Happy Together was released. In a particularly wild evening before their Happy Together tour in London, Jim was berated by John Lennon. According to fellow Turtles member Howard Kaylan, Jim left the band because of that encounter. After leaving the band, he had a long career as a an electrical contractor in California.

Kenny Jeremiah (November 22, 1942 — December 4, 2020)
In 1964, Kenny formed the band, the Soul Survivors and was the lead singer. Their biggest hit came in 1967 with, Expressway to Your Heart. The group gained International fame touring with Janis Joplin, Donna Summer, The Beach Boys, and Eric Clapton.

David Lander (June 22, 1947 – December 4, 2020)
A boomer writer who became an actor, David wrote for Walter Winchell in his early days. However, most boomers will always remember him as Squiggy, on Laverne & Shirley (1976-83). David was also a writer for the show. He voiced dozens of animated characters and had numerous appearances in movies and TV shows in recent years.

Chuck Yeager (February 13, 1923 — December 7, 2020)
A decorated pilot during World War II, Chuck became a test pilot after the war. He will forever be remembered as the first man to break the sound barrier, on October 14, 1947. His flights were key to developing supersonic flight, and helped launch the race into space.

We continue to say good-bye to so many people who touched our lives during our boomer years. Which ones bring back personal connections for you, boomers?

Boomers Dream of a White Christmas

If you’re a boomer dreaming of a white Christmas, just like the ones you used to know, then you are not alone. As the song illustrates, a white Christmas is defined as a measurable amount of snow on the ground for the holiday … and therein lies the connection to: like we used to know. According to the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration (NOAA), the areas of the country most likely to get December snowfalls has been changing for at least 30 years now. There are variations from state to state, of course — nature doesn’t like to work in straight lines — but as a general rule, the snow demarcation markers have been trending northward. Consequently, areas that may have seen white Christmases in our boomer years are now left with snowless holidays four and five decades later.

Mister Boomer can attest to this by personal observation. In the region where he spent his boomer years of the 1950s and ’60s, every Christmas was a white Christmas. Snow generally started falling the first week of December and additional snow fell every week until Christmas. That guaranteed several inches of snow on the ground for the holiday, but it often snowed on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day as well. For that reason, Mister B’s local weather men often referred to “white Christmas” as actually receiving snow on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. This further defined the term to include fresh snow for maximum glistening.

To young boomers, a white Christmas went hand in hand with a series of snow-related Christmas gifts. After all, boomer kids would spend the week between Christmas and New Year’s more outdoors than indoors. Mittens, gloves, hats, scarves, long johns, boots, sleds, saucers, ice skates, hockey sticks and the perennial Christmas gift of socks, spanned the gift-receivable range from very welcome to sighs and groans. In the end, the double pair of gloves protected our hands from frostbite as the top pair was wet before the first snowball fight was over. Tree tops may have glistened, but a chill wind required layers of clothing, starting with long johns. All the better to make snow angels without feeling the frost. With hats firmly in place, scarves were wrapped around our faces in what, in retrospect, looks eerily similar to sporting this year’s obligatory face mask. All the better to ward off the snow and ice crystals tossed up from our sled runners. To young boomers, a white Christmas was winter fun.

Another aspect of a white Christmas that Mister Boomer really enjoyed was how fresh snow on rooftops and shrubbery softened the brightness of Christmas lights. Large, teardrop light bulbs would glow beneath a thin veil of freshly fallen snow, reflecting outward in a beautiful diffusion of color. While there was (and is) a case to be made for the garish brightness of the holiday, there was something immensely peaceful about a snowy night that muffled the jazz horn that house decorations played.

As for Mister B, the crossover from boomer years to adulthood meant more shoveling, and winter driving. White Christmases weren’t as welcome. As the 1970s wore on, his region experienced an occasional snowless holiday. Into the 1980s, there were more snowless Christmases than white ones.

How about you, boomers? Are you dreaming of a white Christmas this year, or will you have your fill of snow before the New Year is here?