(Some) Boomers Remember Dino, Desi and Billy

Mister Boomer was listening to an oldies show last week when his ears were hit with a real blast from the past: a song by Dino, Desi and Billy. Mister B had pretty much blocked them from his memory. Sure, he did remember hearing the band’s name, and knew a little about who they were, but that was all. So he was surprised to discover a few tidbits about their time in the boomer-era spotlight. See if you remember:

Dino was Dean Paul Martin, the son of Dean Martin. He was elementary school friends with Billy Hinsche, the son of a real estate investor who owned a casino in the Philippines, where Billy was born. The two friends were in their early teens when they formed an acoustic guitar duo to cover songs by Chad & Jeremy and similar groups. When they decided to add a drummer and go electric, they heard that the brother of a classmate, Luci Arnaz, played drums. Desi Arnaz, son of Lucy and Desi, became their drummer, and Dino, Desi and Billy was formed in 1964.

The boys practiced at Lucille Ball’s house and began playing birthday parties and small events. When the band moved their practices to Dean’s house, his mother Jeanette would listen. She thought the boys were pretty good, so she called Frank Sinatra and asked him to come and hear them play. Old Blue Eyes did just that. He heard the boys play couple of songs and asked if they were interested in cutting a record. Sinatra had a major interest in Reprise Records at the time, and signed them. The boys were all under the age of 15.

Mr. Sinatra promptly told them they would not be playing their own instruments on their first record. To make a long story short, their initial single failed miserably. For their follow up single in 1965, Sinatra and company hired the Wrecking Crew to play the instruments, the super group of studio musicians who played on dozens of records in the 1960s. Then Lee Hazelwood was hired to produce the record, and Red West and Joey Cooper were enlisted to write a song. The result was, I’m a Fool, their first big hit, reaching the number 17 spot in the Top 100.

After four albums, six of their songs reached the Top 100. As time went on, they played their own instruments. The band split in 1970.

Dean Jr. went on to marry actress Olivia Hussey in 1971. She had become known for her portrayal of Juliet in Franco Zeffirelli’s Romeo and Juliet in 1968. They divorced in 1978, having one son. In 1982, Dino married Olympic skating champ Dorothy Hamill. The marriage lasted two years. As an active member of the California Air National Guard, Dean Martin Jr. was killed in a plane crash in 1987.

Desi Jr., like Dino, appeared in TV shows and movies during and after their stint in the band. From an early age, he was known as a ladies’ man, adopting the womanizing and drinking of his father. He became a father himself at age 15 through his relationship with model Susan Callahan-Howe. Mixing drugs and alcohol, as so many child performers did, landed him in rehab at the age of 25. After a one-year marriage to Linda Purl in 1979, he married Amy Laura Bargiel in 1987. Laura died of cancer in 2015. Currently, he owns the Boulder City Theater in Boulder City, Nevada.

Of the three, only Billy Hinsche continued on in the music industry. He had been writing songs all along, and when his sister Annie married Carl Wilson of The Beach Boys, he found a musical collaborator. Billy toured with The Beach Boys in the 1970s, ’80s and ’90s. He also had touring stints and studio recordings with Carl Wilson, Paul Revere & the Raiders, Sam the Sham and the Pharaohs and others. He co-wrote Lady Love with Brian Wilson, Away with Dennis Wilson and Let’s Build a World with Carl Wilson. Billy is also credited as a backup singer, appearing on many recordings, including Don’t Let the Sun Go Down on Me by Elton John, Joan Jett’s Good Music and Hat Trick by America, among others.

Who knew? Not Mister Boomer. How about you, boomers? Do you have fond memories of listening to Dino, Desi and Billy?

Boomers Questioned Their Own Religious Affiliations

Recent reports by Pew Research and Gallup indicate that religious affiliation in the U.S. has dropped below fifty percent for the first time in more than a century. In particular, there has been a precipitous drop in church attendance in the past two decades. Mister Boomer remembers the tumultuous times of the 1960s, and places religion smack in the middle of the controversies raised by anti-war and Civil Rights protestors. Mister B feels it was a time when religion was both revered and reviled, and wonders if the seeds of organized religion rejection weren’t planted in our boomer years.

History has documented how World War II placed people together from all walks of life and from every corner of the country. After the War, this blending to “American” was exemplified by the marital mixing of nationalities, something that was discouraged prior to the War. Immigrants, like the parents and grandparents of Baby Boomers, tended to live in the same neighborhoods with others who matched their own nationality, and therefore, their religion. For decades, that comprised the major marriage pool for men and women. Boomers, like children everywhere to this day, adopted the religion of their parents and grandparents without discussion. It was the 1960s when the equation began to change on a larger scale. Organized religion has always helped people answer the big questions of life and death, and assist them in coping with the rigors and stresses of their time. Throughout history, when people no longer recognized their religion as fulfilling their needs, the religion changed, reformed, or drifted away. In the 1960s, many boomers asked questions and researched alternatives to their family religion. There were several possible reasons for the beginnings of breaks with traditional family religious affiliations by boomers, many of whom were leaning toward “spiritual” rather than “religious”:

Transcendental Meditation (a.k.a. TM): Created in India in the 1950s by Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, U.S. college students began exploring this type of mantric meditation that was based on Hindu religious principles, but was seen as a global humanitarian movement to bring about world peace through inner stillness. The movement got a boost when the Beatles spent time with the Mararishi in 1968.

Eastern Spiritualism and Mysticism: Loosely connected to TM exploration, boomers investigated other forms of religions such as Buddhism and Hinduism to compare and contrast with their mainly Western, European-inspired religious upbringing. Influence can be seen in the clothing of the late sixties as well as psychedelic music and drug experimentation.
Native American Culture awareness: Boomers became more aware of the beliefs of Native Americans, especially their connection to the land and Nature.
Social Justice movement: Civil Rights, anti-war, religious and personal freedoms were seen by an increasing number of boomers as moral issues. As such, they looked to their family religious affiliations to see how these institutions addressed — or failed to address — the injustices they were seeing. Some boomers forget that Martin Luther King was a minister, and his speeches all talked about Civil Rights and the Vietnam War in terms of religious morality.

At the same time as boomers were reaching out to the world for religious validity, there was a traditionalist backlash in the country to counter any break from the status quo. Television became a cultural battlefield as the U.S. Congress debated what was moral and right for boomer children to view. The same held true for violence and language in comic books and language and nudity in the movies. As a result, morality laws and regulations were enacted, many of which are still in place to this day.

There were boomers tending toward Fundamentalism in each of the major religions during the boomer years, as well as the Charismatic and Pentecostal movements. The term “televangelist” was first used to describe Bishop Fulton Sheen, a Roman Catholic bishop from Newark, New Jersey, whose radio program, The Catholic Hour (1930-1950), had labelled Adolph Hitler an Anti-Christ. In 1952, his weekly television program entitled, Life Is Worth Living, began broadcasting in prime time, earning him the designation. Evangelical ministers, most notably Billy Graham, Oral Roberts and Rex Humbard, soon had their own television programs.

In 1957, the U.S. Census had, for the first time, a question about religious affiliation in its Current Population Survey. There was immediate backlash by a wide section of people on both sides of the political spectrum, and subsequent discussion eliminated the question from future government queries on the basis of separation between church and state. Since then, the Census collects information on organized religions only as any other county businesses.

Mister Boomer grew up in a Catholic family in a very Protestant neighborhood. In his own family, something that made a profound difference in religious terms was Vatican II (1962-65). Pope John XXIII had called bishops together to discuss possible cultural changes, something that had not been done in the Catholic Church for over 100 years. Mister B recalls the biggest change in his family’s church was that the services were no longer spoken in Latin. Suddenly, the priest spoke English and faced the congregation rather than an altar. Traditionalists like Mister B’s aunts were appalled and opposed to any change in church services whatsoever, but his family embraced the changes. Soon after, the first guitars made their way into special Sunday services, billed as a way to keep young people in the fold. These services left the church organ behind in favor of folk singers with acoustic guitars and newly-minted songs to replace the centuries-old music from the pages of church hymnals.

Mister B’s own religious journey began in earnest in high school, when he explored the world beyond his own upbringing by reading about Western philosophy and ultimately, the tenets of Buddhism. Other religions all seemed very much in line with each other in terms of their professed beliefs of peace, love and understanding. Yet what was visible on the evening news and the actions of people associated with these organized affiliations did not match their stated beliefs. At the same time, priests and nuns who were his teachers and family friends began leaving the Church at an alarming rate. Those contrasts led him away from organized religion at an early age. He has had no affiliation for many more decades than he did in an organized religion as a child.

Therefore, in his experience, Mister Boomer humbly theorizes that the seeds of distrust toward religious affiliation were planted in our boomer formative years. He in no way is disparaging anyone’s beliefs or affiliations; in fact, quite the opposite. He, like many boomers, adopted the ideal of personal choice early on, which means we each maintain that freedom to decide for ourselves. Yet, since we were a generation known for questioning the status quo, is it any wonder that our children and grandchildren are choosing “none of the above” when it comes to religious affiliation faster than we did?

How about you, boomers? Did your children drop the affiliation you had when they were young? Did you drop your religious affiliation in the past few decades?