Boomers Knew Signs of the Times

It occurred to Mister Boomer that our generation knew and employed hand gestures — signs of the times, if you will — that became identified with our generation. Some we inherited from previous generations and carried on the tradition, while others we adapted and made our own.

The symbol for “something is not smelling right” is a thumb and index finger grasping one’s nose. A gesture often used by children, it could under those circumstances relate to personal proximity to a gaseous presence, often emanating from a sibling. When performed behind the back of the alleged offender, often an adult, it was a “man, this stinks” statement to surrounding siblings or classroom pals.
In later years, it was used to describe the stench of polluted air. Occasionally it was used as a metaphor to protest government action that, to the protester, meant “something stinks here.”

Peace Sign
Perhaps the hand gesture that is most often identified with the Baby Boomer generation, this sign of the times consisted of lifting the first two fingers of a hand to form a “V.” Similar to a Boy Scout oath-taking hand gesture, it differed in the separation of the fingers.
Most people know that Winston Churchill utilized the gesture as a rallying symbol to mean “V for Victory” during the second World War. Yet there is evidence of its use as a symbol of victory as far back as the 1400s. Two boomer-era presidents — Dwight Eisenhower and Richard Nixon — were known to raise both arms fully extended in a “V for Victory” stance in political rallies.
Boomers adapted it as a sign of peace during protests of the Vietnam War, a symbol simply stating, “All we are saying, is give peace a chance.” It became identified with pacifists and hippies, but survived and spread beyond the counter culture.

Roll Down Your Window
Boomers know the sign to ask the person in the next car to roll down their window is a hand grasping an invisible handle that is then rotated repeatedly. It was an indication of the manual method most people were required to perform to raise or lower a window inside a car.
Most often used at stoplights, it could be utilized to ask for directions, or in the case of boomers, more often to talk to members of the opposite sex. It might also be used to invite the other driver to race when the light changed.

Boomers recall Mike Myers immortalizing the gesture in the 1992 movie, Wayne’s World. When his character and his cohort Garth (Dana Carvey) pull alongside a Rolls Royce at a stoplight, he does the hand gesture to ask the other car’s occupant if he has any Grey Poupon — a spoof of a popular TV commercial of that time.

Check, Please
Everyone knows a hand wave in a restaurant is meant to gain the attention of a server, most often to indicate that the meal is complete and the bill is requested. It can be a simple raised hand and arm like a student in a classroom, or a hand waving. It is often seen as a hand holding an unseen pen and writing in the air.
This hand gesture did not start with Baby Boomers, but Mister B is including it here because the concept of middle class families enjoying fine dining was mostly unknown in the early part of the Baby Boom. As the middle class grew in the 1950s and ’60s, it has been Mister B’s anecdotal experience that families went to restaurants mainly on special occasions. Boomers would see their fathers perform the gesture at the end of a Mother’s Day meal, and, a few years later when going to a restaurant became an option for dating, employed the hand sign themselves.

Middle Finger Salute
Another symbol that has a long history around the globe, boomers embraced this insult gesture as their own. There was no greater way to express rebellion against the Establishment than to perform the obscene gesture of raising a middle finger, whether that was aimed at the grown-ups from previous generation, at teachers or government.
By the 1970s, the gesture had been overused for all sorts of mundane occasions, diluting the earlier insult and shock factor that drew a separation line between generations.

How about you, boomers? Do you recall these or other hand gestures that you think of as signs of our time?

Boomers Seek Diversion from the New Normal

The idea that someday it would be a normal occurrence for people not in the same location to talk to one another — and be able to see the other person speaking at the same time — was a futuristic dream fueled by the display of the Picturephone at Bell Telephone’s exhibit at the 1964 World’s Fair.

Fast forward to today, and most boomers, who had never heard of Zoom two months ago, or ever ventured into Facetime, Portal or any of the things their children and grandkids have been trying to get them to try, have already had their fill of innocuous video chats with family and friends. Mister Boomer counts himself among this group, but a recent chat with family prompted a boomer flashback that might inject a little bit of fun into your next video obligation.

Shortly into the scheduled chat, once everyone finally figured out how to make each other visible on the screen at the same time (as they did the week before and the week before that), the conversation lagged. There is only so much to report when everyone is doing the same thing — staying at home. That is when the conversation veered to a discussion of the best of the cheap brands of toilet paper that still seemed readily available. While Mister B simultaneously thought it a convenient and even currently necessary overview of the pros and cons of questionable two-ply — and that somebody should make a website about it — he also took a trip in his mind to 1964:

Come on everybody… I say now let’s play a game…

If you’ve read this blog for any length of time, you know that Mister B lives in a world of flashbacks. He regularly wakes up to the sound of music playing in his head in what he has termed, Morning Jukebox Syndrome. And who among us has not come across a scene or a smell that triggers an immediate memory of another time? In this instance, boomer music was surfacing again to save the day. If you haven’t guessed yet, it was Shirley Ellis singing The Name Game.

Mister B remembers the song because his family had the 45 RPM record. He also remembers how kids in the schoolyard would taunt each other with their Name Game phraseology, an insult instead of a whimsy. Then there were the dares when kids would prod you to “do Chuck!”

Mister Boomer was surprised to find his picture sleeve recording was worth more than a few bucks thirty years ago, and sold it well above the purchase price from 1964.

But if the first two letters are ever the same … drop them both and say the name …

Before your next video chat, send the link to Shirley’s video ahead of time to the scheduled list of family and friends. Be sure to include the grandkids on this! Then when the appointed time comes, play your home version of The Name Game, starting with the grandkids’ names.

If, in the process, you completely annoy your children, who will be hearing their kids repeatedly singing their names for the next week like it came from The Lion King or Frozen, then you win.

What memories of The Name Game do you have, boomers?